I shall thus embark on identifying my own culture and the influences it has had on my experiences, behaviors, and attitudes. I am a 22-year-old, heterosexual male of Arabic ethnicity, brought up by reserved parents. Their reservation arises from the fact that they uphold certain beliefs and values primarily influenced by their religion- Islam. For example, they believe that children should not be born out of wedlock; therefore, in the event of an unplanned pregnancy, the parents must get married before the child is born. Their beliefs and values have become imparted on my siblings and me but as we get older, we are slowly deviating from them and forming our own. However, as we grew up we knew that we were expected to act in a certain way and failure to do so result in certain consequences. These beliefs and values that we ascribed to were influenced by our ethnicity and religion.
My attitude towards more liberal cultures has obviously been influenced and more often than not, I find myself repelling people from such cultures. This is because my background is centered on traditional forms of a family where both parents are supposed to be present in the upbringing of a child. Conversely, this denotes that divorce is not an option when one gets into marriage. This strong value on marriage has particularly stuck with me because it was not only upheld by my parents and extended family but also within the environment, I grew up in. This refers to my neighbors, pediatrician, dentist, and teachers in the schools I attended. ...Show more