(Marriage and Family) - "No Matter What"
...person is repeatedly the winner, at the expense of the other, this can also lead the winner to a dangerous conclusion that the loser is weak, and can lead the loser to the dangerous conclusion that the winner is strong. This can ultimately translate into physical abuse, perpetrated by both, on children, pets, or others perceived to be weaker. Safety needs a feeling of equal viability, no matter how much difference in preference surfaces, no matter what.
Modern society is based on competition. We compete at school, at work, in traffic, sports and hobbies. We compete with ideas and theories. But when we... Strategic Safety, No Matter What One of the most critical needs in a relationship is physical...