Parents and Children Relationships

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Conflict in human relationships is not new to man. Though many human relationships are formed in order to benefit the individuals involved, along with agreement and harmoniously living together, opposing one another is part of the developmental process. If individuals in human relationships only agreed with one another, there would be little room for improvement in areas where critical discussions are necessary.


Children have indeed conflicted with their parents since a long time. One may think that children today are more likely to conflict with their parents. However, parent-child conflict is an old one, and this has been manifested in parents struggling to guide their children while children struggle to project their individuality (McGloin and Widom, 2001,1022-37).
Regarding individuality, there are many aspects to look at. To begin with, developing one's individuality starts at an early age. Children learn to develop their own tastes in whatever they do, and in whatever social setting they grow up in (Mahoney and Stattin, 2000, 114-26). Parents often try and intervene and decide what is best for their children. Often, children disagree with their parents in such matters. In other cases, some children accept their parents' choices, but do not remain satisfied. Some children choose to over power their parents' decisions. This is particularly because parents often forget to give their children the flexibility they need to project their personalities. However, in many cases, children insist on choosing what they want even when certain things are not really good for them. This is where parents need to have the final say (Mahoney and Stattin, 2000, 114-26).
Having a final say in matters is a tool that paren ...
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