Apart from the physical health complications involving abortion there are many mental illness that tend to accompany the female undergoing abortion. Women who have undergone post-abortion counseling report over 100 major reactions to abortion. Among the most frequently reported are: depression, loss of self-esteem, self-destructive behavior, sleep disorders, memory loss, sexual dysfunction, chronic problems with relationships, dramatic personality changes, anxiety attacks, guilt and remorse, difficulty grieving, increased tendency toward violence, chronic crying, difficulty concentrating, flashbacks, loss of interest in previously enjoyed activities and people, and difficulty bonding with later children. (Reardon 1987)
Male partners who actually care about their partners try their best to support them by 'being there' but their silence is often misunderstood as apathy and indifference towards the plight of female in case there are considerable social problems involved with the birth of the child which may be illegitimate. Shostak describes male abortion pain as the loss of fatherhood and a "wound you cannot see or feel, but it exists" Shostak found:
The prejudiced society views the male as the one who doesn't care about abortion because he is not the one who actually gives birth to the child and hcnce can't empathize with the female. But this is not really true as there are studies reflecting contradicting views to the one stated. For instance, a study in Kenya among 466 males between 18 and 22 years of age indicates that most (78.6%)of the respondents disapproved of abortion. Even when the respondents were questioned on various circumstances to justify abortion more than half (56.2%) indicated no approval of abortion. On probing still at third (30.7%) of the respondents did not indicate any circumstance for approval. The circumstance that drew the greatest approval for abortion was when the mother's life was threatened by the pregnancy (17.2% in spontaneous responses and 43.1% in probed responses) (Ngure 2000)
The crux of the issue will always be a constant reality unchanged by time and that is that killing hurts them all - males and females alike.
The theory argues that male-female differences and similarities derive from interactions between the physical attributes of men and women and the social context in which they live.
It has long been known that men are ruled by logic whereas female are ruled by emotions. One of the most interesting differences appear in the way men and women estimate time, judge speed of things, carry out mental mathematical calculations, orient in space and visualize objects in three dimensions, etc. In all these tasks, women and men are strikingly different; as they are too in the way their brains process language. This may account, scientists say, for the fact that there are many more male mathematicians, airplane pilots, bush guides, mechanical engineers, architects and racecar drivers than