We see almost the exact opposite situation in "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty." Mitty, the main character, is trying to escape his life, of which his wife is a very disappointing part. He does not even seem to recognize her when she audibly interrupts his airplane daydream. The reader begins to see why Mitty might want to forget his marriage when his interactions with his wife are presented in more detail. She is a bossy woman, who doesn't seem to understand him at all - or even care about him very much. She commands him to get overshoes, even though he insists he doesn't need them. And later, when he says he has been thinking, she thinks that he must be sick. It is as if, to Mitty's wife, he has no life - and no thoughts - apart from her.
Two people who are too wrapped up in their own thoughts to care much about the other person are married to each other in Raymond Carver's "Cathedral." The reader begins to wonder how, or why, the main character and his wife ever got together. He is jealous of her friendship with the blind man - so much so that his wife is afraid he will ruin her friend's visit. She even questions the narrator's love for her. It seems that she is emotionally more intimate with the blind man than she is her own husband, and this could explain her husband's jealousy. In this partnership, we do not see one marriage partner trying to dominate the other. ...Show more