Creting idel imges of me nd the outer world is wht describes my personlity. I therefore, live in the present, nd reject who I m t the moment while concentrting who I wnt to be. Since it is impossible to rech the idel, I do not perceive the world s it is nd often disppoint in life. I my thus describe myself s nve person, but lso the one who enjoys life nd sees everything in the best colors.
My ego-self is constntly judging nd rejecting its rising stte nd trying to fit itself into certin idel. It is not just being where it is nd llowing itself to unfold freely. s result, it does not understnd where it is for it is invested in being somewhere in prticulr, being certin wy, or in stisfying prticulr idel. nd even if this idel is tken from spiritul techings, the sme mechnism of ego ctivity is in opertion. Trpped in the ego-self, I do not trust tht Being myself will tke me where I need to go.
2. Second, nd eqully importnt, is the bility nd willingness to be tem member, plying dily roles in such fshion tht the whole is lwys greter thn the sum of it's prts. It must be recognized nd ccepted tht no tem is ever stronger thn the wekest member, so tht ech member must be ssigned to mke full use of tlents possessed.
3. Third, tht ll individuls re equl nd tht ech nd ever one must fully recognize tht equlity nd with full cceptnce of the other, but tht we re ll humn beings; ech with our own prticulr weknesses nd strengths; so tht in full tem fshion one's strengths re emphsized nd weknesses re minimized.
4. Finlly, there is the mtter of "fir ply" nd honesty in never ending episode tht is lwys dpted to one's dily life nd the conditions tht emerge in specil situtions. Trustworthiness derives lmost solely from honesty nd fir ply, nd it is the most bsic requisite for success in democrcy.
Vlues, beliefs nd spirtions
Grown-up person is the one with bunch of experience over his/her shoulders who is conscious nd determined of certin principles nd priorities in life nd who hs come to self identity through the pth of mistkes nd often disppointments. person usully becomes more responsible in ctions nd stedy in opinions when becoming prent. Coming up to the comprehension of importnt notions in life which identify one's personlity prent tries to tech the child most of success, freedom, honesty, intimcy or rcism. However, the child due to his/her individul fetures will identify this issues on his/her own; the prent's obligtion is only to outline the understnding of these concepts so tht they would be their unflinching beliefs nd priorities when mking decisions or stnding behind the choice.
I remember myself being child nd remember my vision of these issues. It hs gretly chnged s I becme older nd now I would do my best now so tht my child chooses the pth of life giving miss to my mistkes. First I would like to give n dvice regrding the perception of Success.
ll my life I reched for success nd found myself decent cndidte to