A lot of fathers, especially young ones, are sure that mother accounts for child's upbringing, and all that is needed from father is playing with child from time to time. Another fathers would bring up the child if it were son, and are inferior child to mother if it is a girl. In this essay I will try to convince the audience that fathers should take part in upbringing their children. I will bring arguments describing why fathers should pay attention to children upbringing and show benefit of this position for all the family.
One of the fathers' assertions in support of leaving all cares for mothers is a great stress. But father's participation in children upbringing takes away a lot of stress from the mother. Upbringing of child is not easy, and mothers are often get tired of this process, so they become nervous and quality of their efforts goes down. Exhausted mother cannot give to the child her care and love, because all she dreams about is to sleep a little or calmly drink a cup of coffee. Children often feel that mother is in a bad mood so they also become nervous. Both mother and child suffer this way. If father takes place of mother when she is tired and let her rest, thus he shows that her state of health is important for him. She will appreciate such attitude and next time will be happy to do all her best for the family.