Speaking about the reasoning stated above, I can’t but say that I completely agree with the first two items. We usually exchange secrets with those people who we want to be and consider to be close to us. However, no society can exist without deviance, so we can’t even admit that a society without deviance can exist. In every society there are different norms and rules, and deviance means violation of these norms and rules, which are common for all the members of society. The rules of behavior are obligatory and necessary. Our world simply would not be able to exist and would disappear without norms and rules of behavior. Human’s nature presupposes violation of these norms as humans are imperfect creatures by their nature. Thus, deviance anyway takes place in every society and no society can exist without it. As norms and rules can’t exist without deviance, the same way deviance can’t exist without norms and rules.
Actually, feeling of closeness between people is established not only by sharing secrets and deviance can’t be considered a reason of closeness between people. Moreover, deviance sometimes can be a consequence of sharing secrets. A person may share a secret with another person who seems close to him, but this sharing can turn into a big and serious mistake. I had such a situation in my life. Another person may be not so close or their relationships can break one day.