This paper stresses that there is a difference in the way the men and women express love. In today’s contemporary society the form of love that is exhibited by the male and female gender is different as love has been feminized as the women are referred to be more skilled in love than the men. There is however the fact that there is an aspect of love that is expressed through the physical aspects such as providing help, sharing activities and sex that are also forms of love as expressed by the men since their love is expressive. In the present generation most people are exercising their sexual freedoms and are not concerned about the pursuit of happiness that could only be found if two people were in love with each other. There is no basis for majority of the relationships that are in existent and as the cliché goes ”friends with benefits” people are engaging in erotic sexual relations for lust other than on grounds of being in love with each other. However it is commonly believed that in order to maximize on the level of happiness and value that one place on erotic pleasures and sex the people should be in love
This report makes a conclusion that the contemporary society has changed and the people have found new freedoms that have ultimately led to a new definition of love and sexuality in the present society. Love is therefore an important subject and needs to be critically examined in order to come up with the best assertions that best describe and define love.