Summer is the beginning of new relations for many people. No more time to cry after your last break-up – c’mon, you can handle this! Pick your best dress in flowers and put on your high heels.
Well, there are two sides of the coin. In case you wish to have one-time sex or short-lasting holiday romance, you may avoid being obvious. Remain a secret if you wish, but don’t make a complete fool out of the guy. Some guys simply hate playing those games – they hope to meet a sincere, childishly naïve girl with beautiful dreams and large hopes. Since you are wearing your bikini, there is nothing t worry about – he will eat it. Every man likes woman body.
Showing off your assets like your average salary or past relations is not the best tactics, but try to avoid keeping silent and pretend you are some kind of a fucking queen. Boys appreciate sincere girls as “there is so much little left of them.” Also, don’t flirt with any other guys in front of him – he won’t take you seriously after all. In case you don’t want another broken heart, share your worries with the guy. Just tell that you don’t need one-night relations. Say that you would like to have something more – don’t be too shy and scared, or you’ll ruin your life!
Don’t Look Skimpy
Mind that I didn’t say “vulgar” – there is a difference between these two. It’s not just that the second types attract some men despite the prejudices. Skimpy refers more to “Ugly Betty” style, but still it’s not the clue. I would rather mean a “creamy” look: such types of bikini begs for attention that is somehow humiliating. Even if you were just tossed away by your boyfriend, do whatever to look confident. Forget about that awful pimple on your nose, don’t mind your split hair or sleepy, heavy eyes. Remember: there is nothing you can’t fix about your appearance in the age of modern technologies. But the chance of finding your true love is rather rare.
On the whole, psychologists believe only 2% of the world's population more or less fit one’s individual criteria. Of course, there is no point of shaking in your boots every time you see a perfect guy but think about the importance of relations to exclude any misbehavior. Random guys are not ready to apply suntan lotions just to every girl in the area. After all, men all have preferences too. Their polygamic nature does not mean they are willing to serve simply every female around. All you have to count on is your intuition: does he have looks that kill ON YOU?
C’mon, we are all free people. In fact, even married people are free by their nature. And you are free and polygamous as well, it’s just your female nature that fights with it. You can ask him for something once, but don’t make it double or triple. You don’t have any right to do it with the stranger. If he notices any hysteria in your actions from the very beginning, he would like to skip the future. Keep yourself in hands and don’t laugh too much – it only distracts all the cool guys. In case he starts laughing out loud without any good reason, you’d better think if anything’s wrong with his brains. Kissing and hugging versus his will is absolutely forbidden. Oh, yeah, and don’t try to steal him from his GIRLFRIEND.
Well, as I’ve already mentioned, it is critical to understand the girl’s true desires and goals. Is she looking for the next hook-up, a brief summer fling, or long-lasting relationship? Provoking bathing suit (bikini are not necessarily one as they can be rather trendy and fashionable), chances are she's going to reel in a hookup or a fling. Especially if her boobs look like Pamela Anderson’s twins. Perhaps, that is what both girl and guy are looking for. It could go the other way if you are wearing something cute but not too revealing.
Don’t Go Drunk!
Well, this rule works at least for the first couple of times. Modern guys are okay with drinking and smoking girls. However, it does not mean you are welcome to turn heavy drinker or smoker within the first few minutes of your communication. At best, most of the guys will evaluate it as your weakness (we all know bad habits attack women harder). At worst, he will treat it as you are eager to talk with him only due to your condition. A Sober mind is always a good approach to summertime rest. Try to drink only light cocktails unless until you go back.