She mainly discusses the effects of the shame that comes with cyberbullying and online harassment in this speech. She comes out as a process speaker who is articulated and extremely focused on driving her point home and thus influencing her audience to understand the problem and reality in shifts in order to help in eliminating the practice. This is achieved through various components that include her emotions on the matter, her ability to provide cases that turned out worse and the fact that she is able to reveal the statistics on the increasing trend in the form of ethos, pathos, and logos within the speech. Nonetheless, she emphasizes more on the use of to draw the attention of her audience to the extent that they relate to her situation and make the commitment to eliminate the problem to avoid any further detriment.
The main thing that Monica Lewinsky wants to attain from the audience is to help other victims from suffering public shame and from going through what she underwent. However, it is not possible to attain this without revealing to the audience why. As such, she starts the note from her own experience to connect with the emotions of the audience. One of the major forms was by placing the audience in her own shoes. This helped her to attain their identity and appeal and help them relate to the situation when she asks “Can I see a show of hands of anyone here who didn't make a mistake or do something they regretted at 22?” to show to the audience that just like everyone, she was eligible to make mistakes at the age (1:58) only that it was not expected to be blown out of proportion like hers was.
She expresses her sorrow in by stating humiliation and torment that such a character can go through is close to the worst feeling on earth. She recounts in “I was Patient Zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost instantaneously” (2: 03) to show that none of the media personalities considered her point of view as a human being and hence to treat her case with a little bit of caution or consideration.