3. Attachment behaviour is to be viewed as part of an organisational system which utilises the notion of an 'internal working model' of self and other to guide expectation and the planning of behaviour.
4. Attachment behaviour is resistant to change, but there is a continuing potential for change so that at no time in a person's life are they impermeable to adversity or to favourable influence. (Green, 2003, p. 87)
For Bowlby, our survival as individuals and as the human species depends upon the ability to establish and maintain emotional ties to others. Therefore attachment theory in the simplest form helps an individual to imitate various behaviours from his social circle of friends. Melanie Klein does not support attachment theory as a social human behaviour. She views attachment as "a depressive position of the unconscious". (Fordham & Hobdell, 1998, p. 41)
There are two types of possible attachment, positive and negative or secure and insecure attachment. Secure attachment is an internal source of strength that may help an individual to positively analyse the stressful experiences, to constructively confront to these events, and to improve his or her well-being and adjustment. In contrast, insecure attachment, either avoidant or anxious, can be viewed as a potential risk factor, leading to lack of confidence to confront and to maladjustment. (Rholes & Simpson, 1998, p. 143)
In the light of positive and negative aspects, the individual ignores many key facts behind building such relationshi